Robocop,
I am assuming you want to keep the script that powers the site as well. You best bet is to get a custom eSyndicat skin designed for you, this will allow you to get the site to look exactly how you want.

Should you go ahead with this plane, ensure you get a copy of the skin in editable (PSD format) so that should you lose touch with the designer and eSyndicat is upgraded and the skin no longer works, you can easily get another designer to make necessary modifcation from the PSD backup you have.
Good luck
PS: Not a good idea to post your email in public places like this, its an invitation to spammer. Just ask interested people to send you a PM.

Thanks for the advice Temi, was hoping to get into this at the end of the week but the phone started again and my few days peace from work has gone out the window. p.s have removed the email addy